I understand that it is an affair- the problem is no one else see it that way; and as I mentioned the two of them have been outed by me so they decided to make it public- perhaps less guilt that way.
I saw W lastnight- her mother has already met the guy, the three of them had dinner on Monday night. OM is divorced and 8 years older than W. They were born in the same hospital and went to the same college. I asked if she was in love, she said no. I asked if there was something there, she said maybe, I don't know.
I am interested in getting more advice from you on this.
There is alot of stuff that is changing. W was on antidepressants for years, she's coming off of them now, W has worked 7 days a week for the last 2 years, now she's taking a day off on the weekend.
These are two things that I recommended years ago- she's doing them now for this new R/A- but wouldn't do it for our M.
I cannot understand it and I feel if I mention it to her- it is pursuing.
She has sabotaged everything as far as our attempts at Piecing over the last 6 months- and this is now the second EA/PA with a new man.
She is not interested in therapy.
Please let me know what you think, b/c I am tempted to speak w/ her about it.
