Update:

It appears that the rental is in such bad shape that she's talking about trading it in on a new one. I asked if she planned to do this in her name only, and she told me no. She still want's the trailer as a place for us to rotate out of while we're working this out.

She said that if we work this out then my older daughter can live there and pay for it when she goes to college. When she said if we work this out i was rather surprised as all talk before was about nothing but divorce. i know these words were small, however it did leave a window cracked so to speak.

I just need to keep working on me and allow her to work on herself. When the time is right, we'll start to work on us.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept