- I am just hoping that this is a wake up call for him. Not sure when that wake call up will happen. He has to know deep down that the person he is today is not really him. That is what keeps me going some days is knowing deep down somewhere the H I married is still there.
Yes deep down he is still there but to expect anything right now is foolish from you. Listen to yourself...
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I know I have to not expect anything
The best you can hope for right now is to love him by detaching and giving space.
Sure you can go to the hospital and be there for him but just keep listening to your own advice