DCBHM, Aside from the ages of our kids, which is kind of irrelevent anyway, my sitch and where I'm at now are spookily close to yours.

Good Luck going forward.

H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010