Lost, I'm a softie, you've asked him and he's said OK. Go to the Hospital to be with him. There's detached where you are and there's "Don't give a sh1t" where you're not. This is the man you love and are fighting to spend your life with.

Hopefully all will be OK, but just make sure you see it as it is. You care about him and his health, he may not feel the same way thru the fog. You are the better person, just don't expect gratitude from him, but be there for him.

For want of a better phrase, for now, "Give a sh1t"


H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010