Hi All. Thought I would post an update.

We did not go away for the weekend as originally planned (didn't want to do the long drive) but we did have a good weekend together. On Saturday we helped feed homeless people with a church group/friends from wife's job. On Sunday we cooked together, went for a walk, went to the YMCA to work out, and watched a movie. She stayed at my place Saturday night; I stayed at her place on Sunday night.

This all sounds very positive when I write about it but.... I still feel very uneasy about the pending divorce. It was very difficult for me not to initiate a conversation about our marriage -- I didn't but wanted to.

Am I doing this right? It seems counter intuitive. I feel like I should just ask "are you divorcing me or not?" but, I know if push for an answer, I will not like the answer I get. On the other hand, I feel like I am just ignoring reality.


Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids
Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation
Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled
Moved back home May 2010
PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010