good for you for standing up for yourself and letting him handle that button thing on his own. i think it is little things like that that give WAS's an inkling of what their lives might be like without their LBS. small victory for you, and a great 180, too!
Thanks tta. It was a funny moment, the look on his face was priceless. It's hard trying to read him and whether or not the withdraw is effective or not. But that sure seemed like it was working! He's been using some of my tricks on me; not talking, just being happy and quiet. Grr.
Originally Posted By: crushed_v95
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I don't see him ending A anytime soon. If it isn't a PA, I'm sure [guessing] it will be in the near future. Or I can't imagine how it wouldn't become so. I'll be 'out of the way'. H. has already projected me cheating many, many times over the last 6 months.
LOLOLOLOLOL! I love it when these creeps do this crap. Some woman wrote me a thank-you letter, once, and I've had no contact with her since. From the time I let my wife know that I was tired of sharing her and planning to leave she calls this woman (thank you note writer who I have never met) my "little girlfriend".
It's pure displacement. Too bad we can't resurrect Dr.s Freud, Jung & Adler and get some of these wayward spouses on the couch. The fun those gents would have sifting through the roaches and dung in their broken psyches...
Crushed, amazing the silly, silly things they say. Anything to deflect / justify their own bad behavior.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
It's hard trying to read him and whether or not the withdraw is effective or not. But that sure seemed like it was working! 
He's been using some of my tricks on me; not talking, just being happy and quiet. Grr.
Anything to deflect / justify their own bad behavior.