It is blatantly obvious that at minimum we have communication issues.
as far as going to a c with h? we did that when he first came home after seperation. To say it was non productive is putting it nicely. H seemed to think we were supposed to go there and say everything is going great or good and then leave. If I dare attempt to bring up any of the issues I had with the r (since after all he wasn't open to discussing them at home) he shut down and/or got pissy.
I don't see what a c could do for the sex issue when he adimantly refused the c's suggestion that we set asside some time each week for us.
here's to hoping h falls asleep on the couch tonight!
