I will have a look into those books, read the first chapters on the forum on them, will see if the local book stores have them.
We had a long chat yesterday, said a few things, she at last told me she needs some freedom, first time she has said that, and I pointed this out to her, also told her to go do what she feels she needs to do, get out if that is truely what she needs to help her figure out what she wants, but I also told her that I would not give up my kids if she chose to go, do not think that was a wise thing to do, but it is the trueth.
We had a good night after our talk, did not do much R talk, well another day, lets see what today brings.
