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[flowmom]

IDU, my D3 broke her collarbone this year, while I was looking after her. Of course I felt terrible and blamed myself. Accidents happen...it's not anyone's fault. I also didn't take D3 to the ER right until hours later. Yes, she was hurting but actually there was no medical treatment in our case...just taking tylenol and trying not to move around too much. As a father, you can express concern about your children's safety and expect to have that taken seriously by your W. But IMO, it's not productive to your coparenting R to attempt to control how your W cares for your children. Unless she has a history of serious neglect or poor judgement, you should let this go and calm down.