At this point nothing surprises me, @v1olin. In a curious way I find it dehumanizing -- treating me and everything I (presumably) once stood for as chattel. What am I worth? What was my time worth? I'm not saying don't bargain, I'm not saying divorce should just be a one-way payday, but I am saying...really? You're going to include $125 I moved from one account to another for 3 days and so "deprived" you of the interest? Really?
I never did take @Gypsy's advice, not completely (big shock, I know), so I've taken in e-mail to referring to my self, Bob Dole-like, as "Respondent."
So today there's this discussion of some thing or other for the kids that has to be paid for. And she asks Respondent to take care of it. And Respondent asks 3 times for STBX to write a simple, declarative sentence, saying that she agrees with Respondent paying for this thing (lest I get a letter in the year 2020 claiming I "owe" her from 2010, with interest!).
She won't -- "we'll just settle up at the end of the month."
What? "We'll just"??? A -- as Tonto said to the Lone Ranger, "What do you mean, 'we,' White Man?" B -- "just"?? We'll "just" settle up? You mean, "just" go, oh I guess I spent about 120 bucks on Themselves this month?
