Why the drag out? I asked my L and she said that there had been some sicknesses in w's lawyers office and this and that, basically they have not been trying real hard. They still have not got the value or the payout of the pension figured out.
I did go ahead and call the person I met online. She seems to be a nice person and HONEST so far but how long does it take to really know? I have been in a sex starved marriage for 9 years and the thought of seeing someone else is getting more and more exciting. I stayed with my wife while only ML 5 or 6 times a year and then I fought to save our marriage after I found out she was in an EA. I dont feel guilty about wanting to be with someone else anymore but I will wait until it is final.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final