Quart9,

Originally Posted By: Gnosis
Gno's rules of thumb:

1) Protect yourself and your future first
2) Then expose to break the affair
3) Then fight for your marriage if you are still so inclined.


This is superb advice from Gnosis.

Originally Posted By: Quart9
As far as a bargainning chip I was talking about telling her I would not expose her if she did not contest the spousal support, but I don't want threaten her like you say.


What are the odds that she will not contest the spousal support?

Definitely worth speaking to your lawyer about that.

Listen to Gnosis' and Puppy's advice on threats. There's no good that can really come of them.

GH31

Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
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W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
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