H4L, gosh it's been a "heavy" few days for you. You are handling it so well. You must be feeling pretty raw. I think that you are doing the right thing: stepping back rather than putting yourself at his mercy. I'm rooting for you, and learning a lot from what you share.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.