Ok...he says he's always beeing this way...a fluxuating libido huh? Does he ever do anything to satisfy you?
See my hubby wouldn't ever go there...unless I said something blatant. And believe me you aren't the only woman out there right now who's sick of initiating...it's tiring, and degrading to be the only one interested isn't it? Not to mention pull-out-your-hair frustrating!!
There are several of us on this board who can definitely empathize with you.
One thing I'm curious about though...and I think Honeypot brought this up too. Have you had a talk with him that states something's got to change or there will be consequences...i.e. moving to another bedroom, moving out when the kids are older etc. Whatever the consequence is you're willing to actually go through with.
I had that talk with my H about a year ago...I told him that I didn't marry him to be virtually celibate and that I was too young to live the rest of my life this way. If we didn't do something we wouldn't be having a 2nd anniversary. That kind of a talk.
It took my being that blunt with my H for him to see I was really serious...something had to change.
Also, I'm assuming you've been reading some of the posts on here...what specifically have you tried out of what you have seen others on this BB try?
