I was kicking around some ideas for boundaries and I come up with a pretty lengthly mental list. As I was thinking more about them though I think it really boils down to 1 main one.
No contact with OM. Period.
If she isn't willing to do this, then the rest is really a moot point.
Does that make sense? I'm thinking IF she does this, then we can discuss my other requirements. If she doesn't I continue down the D path.
A lot of the advice I've received speaks of spending 'some' time with W and keeping a PMA. I can do that, but she is still in contact with OM. Albeit not as much as before, but texting is still daily. I just don't think I'm interested in even 'some' time if I'm 'competing'. I'm through with competition.
