As far as finding what works and what doesn't with my h...I'm at a loss. There seems to be no pattern...doesn't seem to be a time of day, time of month, recent activity, clothing, attitude, action, inaction etc. that stirs him...who knows maybe it's just pitty or obligatory sex and that's why it happens when it happens but that doesn't make sense either because often (not always) when h initiates it's because he wants to...either of out simply physical need or some sudden desire/horniness.
Quote: Do you feel that your H is "hiding" emotionally or that he is being "passive-agressive" about sex since you don't really think he is LD.
I think h is hiding emotionally in general and he definetly appears to be a passive agressive person...how these things relate to sex...I still don't know.
Maybe h is none of those things and just has tunnel vision..work, pay bills, clean yard, watch football anything else is outside of that tunnel and therefore unseen/un-thought of by him.
