Tough situation for you. It's so mindboggling to think about our partners suddenly becoming a person we just dont know or understand. When I think about your thread and confusedwife's - I dont know how you both are surviving it all too. Wondering what your 13 yr old thinks about it - if she says anything at all? My 11 yr old I'm sure just wants us back together - but I dont think she truly knows whats going on - like her older siblings do.


Me: 48
W: 47
M: 25 years T: 30 years
S24, D21, D11
Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09
Separated Feb 2010