I've been at this for 8 months, can tell you without a doubt, leave him alone.
They're in the resources, but think about all the families that haven't ever made it here, that you hear there was a rough spot and next thing you know they're back together.
I don't have it all down yet, I'm a slow learner, but spend time in the resources.
I'm learning that about all we can do as a spouse, is grieve, pray and do our best to focus on us. And most importantly just stay out of the way!!!
