Well I've had quite the venting day, haven't I? sorry - just ignore rantings...
Guess who called sweet as pie with his tail between his legs tonight owning his stuff, apologizing, offering to go grocery shopping for us (hasnt done since the bomb)? Well this stuff of setting boundaries is starting to take effect. I'm still going to keep a biiiiiig space. Need to protect S and self. I handled this amazingly well.
THANK YOU TO ALL YOU AMAZING, NON JUDGEMENTAL LOVING PEOPLE for being there. How can I ever repay you?