I think I'd rather be dead than this- WAW

[Quart9]

Thank you GH31 and Gnosis. As far as a bargainning chip I was talking about telling her I would not expose her if she did not contest the spousal support, but I don't want threaten her like you say.

So file then expose - I will follow your rules Gnosis. My #1 goal at this poitn is to protect myself and my future. I'm no longer "in love" with her anymore. I am also very skeptical of reconciliational between us - especially after I expose her. That's why I'm not worried about doing it because I really think that either way she is gone and I might as well take a dump on the cake she has been enjoying.

I guess OM could have lied to his wife so he could go on the cruise. My gut tells me though that they were already S and he was on that cruise trolling. His W and my W actually look a lot alike - which pisses me off.

If I told OM W on FB I would tell her in a private message. But I may not want to leave a written record so over the phone might be better.

I dunno if someone posted it in this thread or where I read it but I love the statistic that only 1% of affairs actually turn into something long term afterwards. Sure if they split she will be on to the next guy but that stat still made me feel good.