what's going on? is that it's not really going on. it seems h can let a month go by without initiating or accepting my advances (though I don't bother to make blatant advances anymore as I'm tired of the rejection) then seemingly out of nowhere h will initiate (note that even if he does initiate there may be no love making as he can usually be satisfied manually or orally before ever reaching that point) only to again begin another long wait til the next time.
His general outlook seems to be that nothing is wrong until of course I say somethings wrong and well then I'm just nuts.
or of course the famous "that's just the way I am" "I've always had a fluxuating libido" etc.
Though I've explained to him several times over the years just how horrible his lack of desire makes me feel about our r he doesn't seem willing or interested in doing anything about it...
