SFO, recently I was diagnosed with Adrenal Fatigue Syndrome, which basically means I'm physically exhausted. When I told my oldest D16 she said "if you have it, then how come Mommy doesn't?" Her mother is the most driven human being I know, who stops for nothing and even refuses to take aspirin when she has a headache. My reply was "you know how cockroaches are the only thing that will live through a nuclear explosion? Well, your mom is kind of like that". Anyway, I thought that might amuse you I guess I really shouldn't be referring to STBX in the same manner as a cockroach but.... I hope things improve with your daughter!!!!