I'm pretty sure they were separated before OM and my W met.
Don't be so sure.
Originally Posted By: Quart9
Why would he be on a cruise without her?
He could easily have lied about going on a business trip etc. It has happened more times than you can imagine.
Originally Posted By: Quart9
I agree though, OM W has a right to know and I am happy to tell her. I have her home phone number and I know her FB profile - it seems it would be better to contact her on FB?
Over the phone!
There is a good chance she will thank you for letting her know.
Only use FB if you cannot reach her by phone or if you have irrefutable evidence of her affair that you want to post.
Good luck.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
