well avoiding the scale during my pregnancy resulted in an EIGHTY POUND WEIGHT GAIN! I mean I expected to gain 40 pounds, 50 tops, but 80??? Oh well...hard work helped me shed 45 so far...35 to go!

my point is that I stopped looking at the scale and had no clue how much weight I actually gained. So for me, the scale is my "reality check!"

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004