For me during the first pregnancy it was 9 months plus more than a year till we tried for the second. And I was the one who was pregnant, breastfeeding and tired alright? (H does not help with the night wakings as he has to work the next day so I was the one who was more sleep deprived). Now I'm 8 months pregnant and of course nothing and I am worried if it will stay this way for always. At least after the first pregnancy, we had to ML to try for a second!
Oh and LL I totally agree with you that the LDW has it all made. They have their Hs all scrambling to do Acts of Service, Words of Affirmation etc in other words trying so hard to speak their Love Languages and on top of that a H who desires them to boot.
