No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[MrBond]

Busy day on the boards today.

I sent my W a funny picture I took of our D yesterday this morning.

She writes back. "Cute picture." Then says that since I had asked her to watch our D's this Saturday if I had to work, that they should stay overnight with her at her sister's. I had actually told her I might have to work on Saturday when I first found out about the OM's going away party being then. I wanted to see if she would actually go so I set up the D scenario with her.

I am surprised that she has the nerve to say they should stay overnight with her if I had to work, considering she was going to take my D's by force if necessary just because I said one of them were sick and should just stay put for ONE night.

And on Xmas Eve, even though it was well after midnight, she insisted on me driving them back to her place so they could stay with her since it was her night. But here it is MY time and she says (not asks) that they should stay with her.

I responded back to her that I may not have to work on Saturday after all, but if I didn't have to and if she didn't have any other plans (i.e. the OM's going away party). We could always do something together.

I also told her that I understand how lonely it can be when we don't have the kids, and that she is more than welcome to stop by for dinner or say 'hi' when I have them. So I showed her the road home is still there.

Crazy. She misses the kids like crazy, but won't put a single effort in to getting things right between us.

Should I tell her how her request is contradictory to what she's been demanding of me? I'm thinking to let it slide for now until it comes up again.