And you still haven't answered my question about your EX and if she was defrauding the gov. while living with you and why it wasn't an issue then.
she's been doing it since I met her (and her father long before that), which was when she first lived at her dads house, then she moved in with me, and then she moved back there.
Originally Posted By: CityGirl
What better could you be doing? Have you found a C for your D yet that specializes in separation and young children? Have you attempted to craft a formal parenting plan to submit to your attny for a potential outcome that might be more favorable than submitting anonymous tips and bitching about diapers and socks? Have you made a list of goals and issues that you need to address with your C? You know, any of that good stuff?
I havent found a C for D3 yet...
The only parenting plan I want right now is what is already in place. I'm perfectly happy with the way things are and so is D3. The only one who isnt happy with it is my ex and her dad.
As far as the goals with my C, the main ones I laid out with him last time are remaining emotionally stable and my desire to function independently/learning the skillls required for that.
And it still pisses me off that I have to be in counseling and on meds thanks to my ex's crap and D3 may have to go into as well when none of it was necessary before any of this started. Like I said...we're nothing more than "collateral damage" to her. It's rediculous...that one person can decide the fate of three.
