Why would you even possibly feel like the other man's wife should be the ONLY one of the four of you affected, to NOT know the truth of what's going on? So that she can make whatever decisions she feels are best for herself and her family?
Not to mention all the smoke he's been blowing up his W's tailpipe and letting her think she is a failure. Who knows how much he has been blaming her and running her down with emotional abuse about how useless she is and how she never made him happy...
You should know this Q9... you've been on the receiving end of this from your W. How did it make you feel to be told you are the cause. The decent thing to do for her is to tell her the truth so she can have a chance to rebuild the self-esteem that OM has stripped away.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
