Great to get your much needed insight. For Valentine's Day I sent my W 2 books. One is on bead jewelry, and the other is a collection of all Jane Austen's novels. No flowers, no jewelry. She said she liked the jewelry book.
Well, I actually have been increasing my phone calls to about 2 a week. No big declarations. just checking in and saying HI. I usually ask to talk to her after I talk with the kids. so far she's never refused a call.
I'll try the letter. Sounds like a swell idea...You mentioned flowers. Isn't that too much? The message would be definitely loud and clear. I have to also tell you that unbeknownst to me, 2 of my church leaders each wrote to her a letter to tell her how I was doing and the changes they've seen in me. They told me after they sent the letters. Maybe that also triggered some interest on my W's side, not sure.
Anyway. THANKS for chiming in Michelle.
JR09
I sure hope this finds you well Michelle.
Me:44 WAW:43 Children S13,S11,S7 Married 17 yrs W left JUN 08 W filed JAN 09 D proceedings dismissed AUG 09 W refiles 1 MAR 11