I do not contact her at all. I see her twice aweek when we drop the kids off at each thers places. I do not bring up anything about the R, just kids stuff if needed.
We had our talk last week and she said she was going to email the website of the mediator.
She has not done that yet.
As for telling her to move on, I won't in anyway suggest that b/c it's not what I want.
I blow it one time when she ashed how my counseling was going. I was angry at her and was very short with my answer.
I won't make that mistake again.
If she asks I will go much deeper.
I am no longer angry at her and now I'm focusing on solutions,
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