I think you are confusing support with agreement. They aren't always the same thing.
I can tell you this. When I examined why I was wrapped up in a divorce and analyzed why my wife would rather spend time with her friends than with me, it was pretty evident. My actions were causing a lot of those problems.
From your posts and the overly apparent tone you care towards your wife, it's evident to me that you aren't the easist guy to deal with. I'm sure you don't say things in a way that makes someone want to respond in a positive manner. I know, because I was also that guy (and still struggle with it to this day).
Those are the things you are being asked to take a long hard look at. Bottom line is that you married your wife because you loved her, not because she always made perfect decisions, or similar interests, or because she kept a clean house. You need to figure out what you have done to cause the collapse of this marriage, because that is the only thing you have any control over.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
