I am simply pointing out how ridiculous and vindictive you sound.

And you still haven't answered my question about your EX and if she was defrauding the gov. while living with you and why it wasn't an issue then.

What better could you be doing? Have you found a C for your D yet that specializes in separation and young children? Have you attempted to craft a formal parenting plan to submit to your attny for a potential outcome that might be more favorable than submitting anonymous tips and bitching about diapers and socks? Have you made a list of goals and issues that you need to address with your C? You know, any of that good stuff?