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lostlove:

January, no sex. February, once. March, no sex. I have not kissed the wife on the lips since early last summer. Might as well be living with a corpse, I really see no difference.




Cemar,

at different phases in my m h would go MONTHS without initiating much more than the obligatory peck goodbye or hello. Then of course he was one of those "not while your preg" kind of guys so there's 9 months of nothing each time...and well hmmm? he didn't initiate anything either time til the kids were @ 4 months old...so 9 + 4 = over a freakin year with not so much as a passionate kiss? ok ok justfied with preg (on his behalf cause I was more than willing!)

it's all just rotten isn't it.

I'm sure h will initiate or accept soon...thing is I'm again reaching a point where I almost don't want him to bother anymore as I find it insulting...oh sure when he's ready.

LL