H wants to talk tomorrow! Please advise.

[flowmom]

My books should be here by tomorrow. Should I read DB first or DR first?

DR -- it is the most recent uptodate edition.

I am on the verge of asking H to stop disrespecting me by talking to the "friend" I just feel it is something i need to say to him. I have done so well not discussing any issues, but the fact that he just got a FB acct. and she is on there just upsets me to no end. When does this get easier?

Don't do anything yet. You need a strategy and you need to map it out carefully. Basically, your options are

1. "be the better option" -- described in DR and advocated by DB phone coaches (I assume), but not favoured in this forum

2. "busting" the A -- you will get a good idea about this in reading threads in this forum -- a recent example is mb28 -- see her threads from the past month

Don't act until you're sure what the right strategy is for you.

take care