Quote: So fill us all in. Have you gotten serviced yet or what?
that's a big ole negative!
glad what I said was helpful..sometimes we do have to look at things differently.
here's an example..before our seperation etc, h used to pat me on the a$$...it annoyed the hell out of me...what am I some baseball player??? but I realized that this was not something he would do to his mother (like I complain about the pecks hello and goodbye) or anyone else for that matter...this was his little way of showing me...I wanted him to sneak up behind me while I was doing the dishes and put his arms around me but instead he would pat me on the butt...I ignored what he was saying or rather missinterperted the message. Now I love it when he does that...too bad I complained so much about it that he doesn't do it as often.
