Libbyasking, I have been reading this situation and I think you need to be very careful. I don't think your H has been in this anywhere near long enough to be coming out, in fact, I think he has a long way to go. Its not unusual for the WAS to make contact and keep more contact after they break up with the OP. Be very careful, they often do this to keep you hanging as a safety net, as they do get a bit scared. Go about your business and live your life, he's not done yet.
