wanted to fill you in on something. W is supposed to be over to pick up some things.
i am tempted to tell her that it is still my job as a husband to be emotionally involved w/ her- that i have obligations and committment to her, and that she needs to free me from those things by filing- so that I can move on w/ my life and free myself for other people.
I cannot do so if I am still a H, even if my W is not there and not a part of my life.
I know this is probably pursuing, so I thought I would throw it out there for ideas...
