My life could not get more surreal at times than if I were in a Hitchcock movie..
I just sat in a 4 way meeting with STBXW and her L and mine, and after about 20 mins of conversation, my L kicked her L and STBXW out of his office..
W..
T..
F...
I don't even know what to say at this point, I am just stunned....
When it got time to ask for what STBXW and L wanted, they wanted STBXW and d9 to stay in house until d9 turned 18, and that I would pay for the house, and then pay her alimony on top of that, and half our 'assets'
Of course, once again, her inheritance was not listed on financial disclosure, but she has spent 35k of that 50k she got, on Car and new boobs.
I guess we will be going to court, and she can testify to that fact, and that she thinks I need to pay for her home as she can't..
I don't understand it. I really don't...
To say I am shocked would be an understatement.
This is going to drag out and get really ugly, when I don't even want that, I just want out of this with some of my hide intact, and I am not even being spiteful to her..
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."