Thanks again for all the advice. My H did go to 2 MC sessions with me, and at the 2nd one decided he wasn't coming back and that is the first he told me he was done. Since then he has had no desire to have IC and I have not pushed the issue. This was all him bringing up that maybe he needed to talk to someone. He stated that he wanted to talk to someone about ways to work through all of his anger so he can see things more clearly.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10