great ideas really. However, h and I have gone on several weekend getaways and had a great time minus the fact that h did not initiate anything (even when I sat in the jacusi in that was nicely placed in the main room and came out wrapping my wet self in a white sheet) and turned me down when I asked....I basically had to beg to finally get him to cave. Makes it tough to enjoy that way.
We've gone out on dates, had wonderful conversation, he'll hold my hand on the way in or out of a place of his own initiation but when we get home...NADA!
What kills me is when he does initiate...becuase there is no rhyme or reason to it, no logical pattern I'm at a loss.
