Just want my H back

[pearlharbr]

Yes, I do think you should send that email. You need to have things agreed to in writing. Personally I think you should file too, just to get things rolling on your terms. But I understand if you aren't at that place yet.

When I kicked BF out I was D-O-N-E. I was tired of all his crap and decided to take control of my life.