I think I'll decided NOT to respond at all which is a complete 180 of what I would ordinarily do! .....
I think she's anxious to get back into the house and have me 'disappear' so she doesn't have to deal with me, the sitch, or the pain.
Thanks again ALL!!!!!!!! I am SO grateful to you, and hope to give back when I gain more strength.
If she's anxious to get back into the house, don't stop her, tell her "come on in, the water is warm!" ;-)
Look she can do what she wants to do, don't control her, you control YOU - that's all you can do and when you show her and more importantly yourself that you are in charge of YOU, that's pretty damn attractive.
You stay when & where you want to stay, you leave when & where you want to leave.
