Originally Posted By: ericmsant2
We are still in the house together and I see no signs of anything changing.



It HAS NOT been long enough for any signs....You need to stop looking....

Mach said college fund....

That is a wonderful idea IMO. He is correct, children's future is something that gets sort of overlooked through this...

AND it takes the both of you out of the equation and puts the focus on the welfare of your children....

A totally unselfish act and sounds a lot different from the Eric you have described from the past.

Originally Posted By: Mach1

These relationship talks......they are all not bad....only the ones YOU initiate...

When your MLCer brings them up though.....you better shine through them .


This is when you have the opportunity to show who you are growing into...

And IF you listen, REALLY listen, what you will learn can be totally amazing.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox