Also, we have always had one shared account during our marriage and both checks are directly deposited. She watches the accounts like a hawk now to ensure that not a dime is spent that she is not aware of. We have already argued about spending too much on groceries, etc. In her mind right now...everything should stop and we should just focus on paying down the bills. I on the other hand feel like I am paying down more of the debt which will benefit her more than I (although it will benefit me as well).
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
