Glad you had a nice long weekend. Sounds like everything is stable in a good way.
You have made some very good progress.
No venom is good.
Not filing is definitely good. Doesn't mean she won't, or that she hasn't thought about it, but every day she doesn't is a positive.
Nice is definitely good. Sounds like there is a decent friendly foundation there now.
Things could stay like this for a while. Patience is definitely a necessity. But you also need to start thinking of little things to shake up the status quo a little. Maybe a random extra call. A little letter. Maybe even flowers for her and the kids "just because"?
What are some things you did when you two first started dating? What about things she has asked for? On a related note, do you know what her love language is? (Work smarter, not harder!)
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
