[quote=flowmom] isnt it sad though...that I'm the one with family values who wanted to try and get/keep my family together in any way I could for myself and D3, and I end up being the bad guy. Because my ex is a woman, she has a right to change her mind and walk out on me and our family...she's allowed to do what she thinks will make her happy and anyone who gets hurt is just collateral damage. But if the situation were reversed and I had done it to her instead, I'd be the scum of the earth...again "the bad guy".
You need to quit worrying so much about what others think of you. Who are these others anyway? I think you're talking about your ex and her new man. Why would you care what they think?
You know who you are. Worry about what you think and do, then when you're in a good place you will be taking care of your little girl also.
M:40 W:40 2 teenagers ILYBNILWY: 09 January 2010 soon to be walking away my situation