Struggling with Hope

[ericmsant2]

Thanks ML - W was never a spender I was. Paying off the debt is the right thing to do but leaves me totally exposed. We are still in the house together and I see no signs of anything changing. I am standing for her but at the same time I struggle with ensuring that I am prepared for a future without her. I need to be able to find a place and furnish if for me and my children. In terms of paying off assets, the car that she drives is paid off in June. The Sept date would be 1 year from when this whole issues started. Based on last night convo where she reiterated that the M is over I feel like i need to protect myself but then again does that show a lack of faith. This is gonna be one tough question to answer.