EXACTLY... sorry mb28, but their website does NOT tell you who they are.. you need to MEET them... BEFORE your husband gets exposed to them... I can't stress how important this is...
Whatnow I don't know if I am completely on side in this case about too much counselling... I think it depends on the ROUTE the therapist takes. If the therapist focusses on HOPE for the marriage FIRST as I suggested, and educating the husband about infidelity VERY SOON AFTER THAT... and KEEPS on that road until No CONTACT is volunteered the therapy can be very beneficial.
The RISK is that a bad therapist will try to REPAIR the marriage WHILE an affair is going on... and THAT does NOT work, you are right about that...
So, as earlier stated, you need to know the ROUTE this person is gonig to take with your husband, if they are NOT going to give him HOPE and attack that AFFAIR FIRST then don't waste your husband's time on them...
THe more therapists you have to send him to, the less hope he will have for your marriage, you want to make EACH VISIT he GOES to COUNT... don't waste your husband's meagere visits on quacks!
