But if the situation were reversed and I had done it to her instead, I'd be the scum of the earth...again "the bad guy".
I've felt that before, NSW. Sometimes, I was the 'bad guy'. Sometimes not. I figured, writing on a blog, I'm bound to be misunderstood - especially when I'm trying not be too emotional, deal with MY problems (not hers) and how I see it...so the rough reactions...remember that the intention is probably to help.
I also figured, since we are all here, we must all do enough wrong or have been 'injured' enough in the process of being married to a spouse with issues to deal with.
Look for two things in the rough posts (IMO): - Not is there, but WHERE is some truth to what is being said? - Consider that your W may be seeing it that way.
I wouldn't give up just yet, but as always be selective.
